{"id":4469,"date":"2018-03-11T23:51:49","date_gmt":"2018-03-11T23:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/adeus-ao-rio-de-janeiro\/"},"modified":"2018-03-11T23:51:49","modified_gmt":"2018-03-11T23:51:49","slug":"adeus-ao-rio-de-janeiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Farewell to Rio de Janeiro"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">It's harder than you might think to say goodbye to Rio de Janeiro.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I never thought I'd say goodbye to Rio de Janeiro, but the time has come, and sometimes you have to spread your wings to fly higher.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/e4e_hTMinFM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ever since I was a little girl, I dreamed of seeing the world. <a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com\/viajante\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">I was born a traveler or became one,<\/a> But I'm certainly purely a traveler today.<br \/>\nI've even read some things about a traveler's gene, so it must really be my parents' fault, lol.<br \/>\nIn addition to this gene, they were the ones who taught me how to travel, and this showed itself several times when they put everything in the car and drove off.<br \/>\nOr better still, let's go and have lunch in Penedo? It's only 178 km away, it's right next door lol.<br \/>\nI ended up growing up and realizing that places aren't that far apart.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">Love and travel<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>And with this idea I ended up finding the perfect match.<br \/>\nOn my first date with Igor, we did something ordinary, we went to the movies like two lovers, but he arrived on a motorcycle, a motorcycle at that? I said I would NEVER get on a motorcycle, until that day...<br \/>\nThe next day I was on his back at over 200km per hour going to lunch in Nova Friburgo. This was our first trip and it was just like I used to do with my parents, we went to lunch next door lol, only 140km away. That was it, he won me over and I didn't even know it myself. Within a week we were dating and the trips were getting further and further away.<br \/>\nAt the time, he worked for TAM and when he took time off...<\/p>\n<h6>Hey! Weekend off, are we going to Miami?<\/h6>\n<p>The ticket was almost free and we enjoyed many weekends around the world.<br \/>\nSometimes we'd go in the early hours of Friday to Saturday and come back in the early hours of Sunday to Monday straight to work.<br \/>\nThis really helped us not to find anywhere so far away hehehe.<br \/>\nWe won the world and this became more and more present in our lives.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">A gift from God.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>We lived intensely until our little Emmanuel came along, but obviously he wouldn't be a reason to stop. After all, <a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com\/gravidas-tambem-viajam\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pregnant women travel too<\/a>right?<br \/>\nWe're still out there, traveling a lot and having a great time!<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3259\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/projeto-tamar-cris-stilben-cris-pelo-mundo-crisstilben-2-678x1024.jpg\" alt=\"farewell to Rio de Janeiro\" width=\"361\" height=\"545\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><br \/>\nWe traveled more around Brazil until he was 2 years old, and we traveled to 10 states with our little one during that time. But we also went to Asia and faced more than 30 hours between flights and connections, taking our little one with us. It was a very enjoyable trip that allowed us to see that our little one is also a traveler, even if he is only 2 years old.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-6243\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/melhor-\u00e9poca-para-ir-a-Tail\u00e2ndia-8-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">Why goodbye to Rio de Janeiro?<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Many things contributed to our decision to say goodbye to Rio de Janeiro.<br \/>\nQuality of life, education, violence and dreams, all mixed up in large chunks.<br \/>\nWe knew we could have a good chance in Europe, but the time to take a chance was now.<br \/>\nWe filled our chests with determination and courage and went on.<br \/>\nWe embarked on the day of Emmanuel's third birthday, so the date would remain in our memories forever.<br \/>\nSoon he'll be of regular school age and then... Taking risks would be much more complicated and so would traveling constantly.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">It's not all flowers.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Of course, there aren't only flowers along the way and it's not just school age that worries us. Leaving your family and your life is not easy!<br \/>\nOver the last month our hearts have been breaking and we've almost given up. Every glance, every lunch, every goodbye became heavy as time went by and the closer the date got, the worse it got.<br \/>\nCrying is inevitable, homesickness starts much sooner than you think and only those who are really focused say goodbye to Rio de Janeiro. Of course, today it's easier to get around this, with lots of video calls and telephone conversations, but in the end they're not enough either.<br \/>\nLonging is the worst villain in the process, but knowing that maybe it's not goodbye but just goodbye makes everything easier.<br \/>\nBut seeing your little house falling apart is heart-wrenching!<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-4469 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-large'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/adeus-rio-de-janeiro-cris-stilben-crispelomundo-1-3\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-3-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-3-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-3-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-3-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/adeus-rio-de-janeiro-cris-stilben-crispelomundo-1\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/adeus-rio-de-janeiro-cris-stilben-crispelomundo-1-4\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-4-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-4-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-4-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-4-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-4-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-4-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>We want to come back, maybe in a year or less, maybe more. But we don't want it to be more than two years.<br \/>\nIn our new life, everything has become an unknown and I particularly like that, I hate routine and I love surprises, which is great! In other words, if you're methodical, be very careful, there will be a thousand unforeseen events in the process.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">Nursery school and lots of love.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>When we decided to say goodbye to Rio de Janeiro, we found a nursery school and fell in love. Ativa Idade became much more than just a nursery school. There were still five months to go until our departure date and we decided that he would study during that time and it would be at Ativa Idade.<br \/>\nAs well as having a sensational philosophy, everyone who works there is wonderful.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VpoyRi2IaGg\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>We managed to find a place where our little one felt at home, which ended up making the process even more difficult, because it was hard to say goodbye.<br \/>\nHe was doing so well at nursery school, studying well, learning English, meeting real pets and with friends he loves.<br \/>\nSaying goodbye wasn't easy either, but we made a good network of friends! That we'll carry with us for life.<br \/>\nThe active age has become part of the family and, if we go back to Brazil, that's where our little one will study again and see his friends if we return to Brazil.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">Once upon a time, one country per month.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>As soon as we got back from Thailand, all I could think about was that I wanted to travel forever.<br \/>\nI think it stuck in my mind so much that, along with my farewell to Rio de Janeiro, the project \"Once upon a time, a country a month\" was born.<br \/>\nWe want to take advantage of the little one's young age to travel as much as possible.<br \/>\nDoing at least one country a month and lots of family stories to tell.<br \/>\nShowing the best of the world and that it is possible to travel with a small child and have a lot of fun!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/F92K83LFiqQ\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Let's say hello to the old continent by showing that it's all about the little ones. Europe is incredibly well prepared to entertain the whole family.<br \/>\nThere's a lot of cool stuff to come, but we've only got the first three months confirmed.<br \/>\nPortugal, France and Holland, then we'll see how it goes and I hope you'll follow along with us.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">New life and lots of new things.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>We're very attached to our family, the mixed feelings are absurd.<br \/>\nEverything good comes with a counterbalancing bad side.<br \/>\nWe gave up everything in the name of a hope for better days and an unavoidable dream.<br \/>\nWe said goodbye to Rio de Janeiro, the city we love so much and where everything we love most in life is located.<br \/>\nYou have to have courage, strength and you can't think too much, you have to take the risk and go.<br \/>\nWe're excited about our dream, which is gradually becoming a reality.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-2' class='gallery galleryid-4469 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-large'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/adeus-rio-de-janeiro-cris-stilben-crispelomundo-1-5\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-5-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-5-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-5-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-5-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-5-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-1-5-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/adeus-rio-de-janeiro-cris-stilben-crispelomundo-2\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-2-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-2-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-2-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/goodbye-to-rio-de-janeiro\/adeus-rio-de-janeiro-cris-stilben-crispelomundo-3-3\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-3-3-1024x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"- Cris Around the World\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-3-3-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-3-3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-3-3-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-3-3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/adeus-Rio-de-Janeiro-Cris-Stilben-Crispelomundo-3-3-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" title=\"- Cris Around the World\"><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Showing our little one the world, getting to know one country a month and lots of stories to tell.<br \/>\nWhat will happen? I don't know, we'll just have to live and see!<br \/>\nBut one thing's for sure: we're a family with a lot of love to make it work.<br \/>\nWe'll tell you all about the process and the news.<br \/>\nAnd soon the adventure really begins<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Be sure to follow us on\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/crispelomundo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a>\u00a0and enjoy all our trips in real time.<br \/>\n<\/strong><strong>Ahhh we also have lots of news every week\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this way!<\/a><\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Or travel with us in our videos on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/crispelomundo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">YouTube!<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 mais dif\u00edcil que se imagina, dizer adeus ao Rio de Janeiro. Eu nunca pensei que falaria adeus ao Rio de Janeiro, mas essa hora chegou, as vezes \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio abrir as asas para voar mais alto. &nbsp; &nbsp; Desde pequenininha eu sonhava em conhecer o Mundo, n\u00e3o sei se nasci viajante ou me tornei [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[834,109,22,24],"tags":[2452,331,2453,2454,2455,2456,2457,2458,252,396,2459,2460,2461,58],"class_list":["post-4469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bebe","category-blog","category-brasil","category-rio-de-janeiro","tag-adeus","tag-europa","tag-indo-embora","tag-larguei-tudo","tag-me-mudar","tag-me-mudei","tag-morar-fora","tag-mudei-de-pais","tag-rio-de-janeiro","tag-rj","tag-sem-destino","tag-sem-volta","tag-um-pais-por-mes","tag-viajar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4469"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4469\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crispelomundo.com.br\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}